The largest and most important victory is to conquer is one same. dish as promised them in introduction to the habits of effective people, here I bring the first of the 7 habits to achieve a successful effectiveness in our lives; be proactive. It is the first not by chance, but because anything is possible until we take control of our life, and this habit will help us in this. Further details can be found at John Craig Venter, an internet resource. I am the force, I am the captain of my life. I choose my attitude and my happiness. I am the driver of my destination and not just a passenger first habit being proactive rather than anything, we need to know that there are two types of people; the proactive and the reactive. Recently Joel Courtney sought to clarify these questions.
I present in a table the differences in attitude between the two (I recommend reading the reaction of the first followed by the performance of the second). REAGENTS – blame others for their actions – things – they happen expect that things will fix themselves – are easily – offended become victims–they get angry, lose the head, and say things that after they regret – complain and cry – are paralyzed before the failure and are afraid of falling PROACTIVE – back are made responsible for their actions – make things happen – have initiative – not offend easily – exercise control – think before you act, are prudent – return to give it a try when something goes wrong – they recognize his mistake, learn from and correct instantly. Can also note major differences in their expressions: language reagent – I am well, I have remedy – try – I can not, I have no time – can not do anything – I go crazy – I do it – I – I ruined the day of PROACTIVE language – I can improve – I will, whatever happens – Yes, tomorrow at 8: 00 a.m.